Truth is

theres no better than truth than your own.

I spoke to my soon-to-be-ex-husbands uncle a few days ago and told him about all these things that was going on in my head and life. He makes it easy for me to talk to him. Like my uncle he is a voice of reason.

Anyways, in the moment of talking to him, I realized I was becoming happier lighter free-ER and its because I was living in my truth. Acknowledging my feelings and best of all still being nice to someone who is being cold, unfeeling, and insensitive towards me.  I made up my mind that I would not be petty like my husband--- if he's a hour and a half late why create an argument. If it's birthday on my day offer to switch and send a homemade gift from the baby. If it's Father's Day on my day switch again and send cards and gift. Why? Because that's the kind of person I am. I am giving and thoughtful. Why change that because our relationship has ended. Nothing changes. I will be who I am --- emotional.

He continues to be himself but I will not let him take me out of my character.

My love wins. It conquers all. And someone will appreciate it.